Just got a new job. Asked how the benefits were during the interview and they said "great!"
Just got a new job. Asked how the benefits were during the interview and they said "great!" O
Come to find out, the health insurance is $120 per month but covers NOTHING. i kid you not. It literally doesn't pay for anything. I asked my our hr rep, and she said it sounded wrong. The store director said the same thing. I talked to three different union reps and they concurred. Today, one of the more experienced reps told me that they just changed it this year. Then whats the point? Well, if you keep the plan for a year, then the copays kick in and they're pretty reasonable. I said, so I have to have the shitty plan for a whole year before I can get the good plan? Yep. We'll, now im gonna have to get yet.another new job.
Also, my therapist was $20 per visit. Now ita $176. The United States is hardly.the best country in the world.
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That's a genuinely rough situation — you were told "great" and got a plan that pays for nothing for a full year, plus a therapy bill that jumped from $20 to $176 overnight. That's a real financial hit, especially with mental health care being exactly the kind of thing people can't just pause.
A few things worth checking before you write off the job entirely:
- Ask HR directly whether there's a waiting period exception or hardship provision. Sometimes plans have a clause for people already in active treatment.
- Call your therapist's office and ask about a sliding scale or self-pay rate. Many therapists have one, especially for existing clients — the $176 might be the "billed to insurance" rate, not what you'd owe if you paid cash.
- Ask if there's an EAP (Employee Assistance Program). A lot of employers offer several free therapy sessions a year through an EAP that's separate from the health plan — HR should know if this benefit exists even if the insurance is bad.
- Check if you're still eligible for a marketplace plan. If your employer's plan is unaffordable relative to your income, you may qualify for subsidized ACA coverage instead of being locked into the employer plan.
On leaving for another job — that's a completely reasonable thing to weigh, but it might be worth asking pointed benefits questions before accepting next time (deductible, copay structure, waiting periods) rather than just "how are the benefits," since you just found out the hard way that "great" can mean anything.
How are you doing with the cost jump in the meantime — is skipping or spacing out sessions something you're considering, or are you trying to find a workaround to keep going regularly?
manager asked me to make it look nice on a friday. i did it in eleven minutes. eleven minutes is now the expectation.
i'm in ops. the deck was for a monday morning standup. she sent it at 4:52pm with a text - can you make this look nice before you go x. So i did it. dumped it in gamma, rewrote the headings myself because the generated ones are embarrassing, sent it back at 5:03. She replied oh amazing, that was quick!!
That was three weeks ago. since then i've had to do four more. the most recent one said shouldn't take you long 😊
Im starting to learn this: the moment you demonstrate that something takes eleven minutes, it becomes an eleven minute task forever, and it becomes yours forever, and it appears nowhere in your job description or your review.
i have invented a new part of my role by being fast at something once. Like they say - the reward for good work is more work.
the correct move was obviously to sit on it until 5:40 and send it back looking tired lol. Should I just teach someone who’s job role entails building support docs like this? im not sure i wanna spill my secrets.
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- Option 1: The Tactical Gatekeep (Keep the secret, adjust the timeline)
- How it works: Do NOT teach them Gamma. Keep your secret sauce.
- The adjustment: When the request comes in, accept it graciously, but hold the output. Do the 11-minute Gamma trick immediately so it's off your plate, but schedule the draft or email to send 2-3 hours later (or Monday morning at 8:15 AM).
- Why: You preserve your efficiency advantage while artificial friction restores the perceived value of your effort.
- Option 2: The Strategic Hand-Off (Train the support role)
- How it works: Offload the task to the person whose job this actually is, but teach them only standard formatting or basic templates—not necessarily your exact 11-minute AI prompt trick if you want to keep an edge. Or, teach them Gamma explicitly, framed as an "ops process optimization."
- Why: "I set up a standardized workflow for [Name] in Support to handle deck formatting moving forward so I can focus on [Core Ops Metric]." You look like a process-improving leader rather than a graphic designer.
- Option 3: The Boundaries Pivot
- How it works: Next time it lands with "shouldn't take you long 😊", reply with: "Happy to polish this! Just a heads-up, I'm deep in [Core Ops Project] today, so I'll queue this up right after I finish [Priority Task] and have it to you by 4 PM."
- Why: Re-establishes that your core Ops tasks take precedence, even if a deck task is "quick."
Works wants me to carry a tracker with me??
I got in today and without much of an explanation I got handed an envelope and was told it was a tracker I had to carry “at all times”. Immediately went to my supervisor and he said it was so the fire department can find us if we get trapped in our building during an emergency, and that it shouldn’t track anything outside of work. I told him I was still uncomfortable with this and would be leaving it in a work cubby, he told me not to do this but I’m not going to carry a tracker with me??? Especially not while I’m using the restroom or not even on the clock???
I’ve tried looking this up to see if maybe this is actually something companies do and I haven’t found jack shit online about it. I don’t expect privacy at work when everything is tracked through the internet/phones/whatever but a literal GPS tracker is just insane. Has anyone heard anything about this? I feel like I’m going crazy.
We didn’t even have a proper meeting about this either. The whole thing just seems so sketchy to me.
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You're not crazy — this actually is a real thing, just not one you'd find much about because most companies handle it very differently than yours did.
The "for fire safety" reasoning is real and legitimate. Some industries — factories, warehouses, hospitals, large retail stores — use small emergency-locator tags (sometimes called PASS devices or occupant-locator beacons) so first responders can pinpoint anyone trapped during a fire or collapse. That part isn't made up.
What's off is how your employer handled it. Best practice — and in ten states, a legal requirement — is written notice before employers start any kind of location tracking of employees. You got an envelope with no meeting, no written policy, and no explanation until you pushed for one. That's a real gap between how this is supposed to be rolled out and what happened to you.
Your specific worries have some legal teeth:
- If your employer requires you to carry it but doesn't have a legitimate reason to track you outside your shift — and does anyway — that crosses into invasion-of-privacy territory.
- Best practice and many state laws require employers to actually tell you tracking is happening — not just hand you a device.
- Courts have pushed back specifically on using off-hours location data punitively. So even if it does track off the clock, using that against you would itself be a problem.
**What would actually resolve your discomfort:**Your instinct to not carry it into the bathroom, or off the clock, is a completely reasonable line to draw — you're not overreacting by insisting on that. What's actually sketchy here isn't necessarily the device itself, it's the complete absence of a real explanation, meeting, or written policy before they handed it to you and told you it was mandatory "at all times." That's on them, not you.
Given you're already dealing with a bait-and-switch on your health insurance from the same employer, I get why this is landing as one more red flag. Worth noting: since you're unionized, this might be exactly the kind of thing worth raising as a pattern — "how are the benefits" turning into a surprise, "no notice" mandatory tracking policy turning into a surprise. That's two things in one week where you were told one thing and handed another.
Not allowed to charge phones or watches at new job???
I just found out you aren’t allowed to charge anything in the break room at my new retail job after my coworkers flipped over me charging my watch on my 15min break. I forgot to charge it the night before and I didn’t want it to die because it is a necessity to meet the time quotas (there are no clocks on the sales floor). While some coworkers said only phones aren’t allowed because they don’t want you using yours anyways, I feel like that is extremely excessive given their many other strict rules. I know the managers are charging their own things in the office behind closed doors too. I also asked my sister if her corporate retail job allows her to charge her phone and she said they do. At this point I’m wondering if there is any point to slaving at a job like this that won’t even let you charge tools that benefit them. Like even my horrible previous job allowed us to charge phones (and customers’) and it wasn’t a multimillion dollar corporation
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That's a genuinely petty rule, especially when you need the watch just to know if you're hitting the time quotas they're setting for you. It's a strange kind of contradiction — "we need you to track time precisely" and "no, you can't charge the thing you use to track time."
A few things stand out here:
The inconsistency is the real tell. Managers charging their own devices behind closed doors while telling staff no isn't really about electricity costs or liability — if it were, it'd apply to everyone. That kind of "rules for thee, not for me" setup usually says more about culture than about any policy logic.
It's worth getting the actual rule in writing before assuming the worst. Right now you've got secondhand versions from coworkers ("only phones," "everything," etc.) — it might genuinely just be an unwritten, semi-enforced norm rather than a real policy. Ask a manager directly: "Is there a written policy on charging devices during breaks? I need my watch charged to track quota timing since there's no clock on the floor." Framing it around the quota specifically makes it harder to just wave off, since it's their system that requires you to have a working timepiece.
On the bigger question — is it worth it — that's really yours to weigh, but you're stacking up a pretty consistent pattern from this employer in a short time: misrepresented benefits, a tracker rollout with zero communication, and now a fuzzy device rule that seems to apply selectively. None of these individually is a huge deal, but together they paint a picture of a workplace that's not being straight with you and doesn't respect your time or reasonable needs. That pattern is worth trusting.
Are you weighing this as "push back and see if it improves" or are you already mentally halfway out the door?
My coworker just quit because I asked if she was still contagious??
Hey guys so my coworker got a MRSA infection and had like open sores and a rash. This developed since Tuesday and just yesterday she was showing me and another coworker photos of her rash worsening. She didn’t once mention that she is not contagious anymore. So me and my other coworker were caught off guard when she announced she was coming to work today. We asked if she was still contagious and she said she’s not and feels better. We expressed our concerns seeing the rash yesterday.
She then snapped and said “if you think I’m contagious then FINE IM gonna grab my stuff and go”. So she came in and left her id and grabbed some stuff from her desk and left without saying anything. We thrn apologized and said we didn’t mean any offence and she said oh now we’re concerned and that if we think she’s contagious then why would we work with her. We’re just so confused cause it seems so random and I feel we were valid?? I know this girl has been having a lot of mental health issue stuff happening so who knows if this was an episode. She still hasn’t even contacted our boss. Is this weird or is she right??
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Your question was reasonable. MRSA is genuinely contagious when there are open sores, and asking a coworker who was showing you worsening rash photos the day before whether it's safe to be around them isn't an insult — it's a basic, fair health question, especially in a shared workspace. You weren't accusing her of anything; you were checking on something that directly affects everyone in that space, including her recovery.
Her reaction doesn't really match the size of the question. Going from "she's not contagious anymore" to grabbing her stuff and walking out is a big jump for a question that had an easy, one-sentence answer. That kind of disproportionate response usually says more about what's going on with the person than about anything the other people did wrong.
You mentioned she's had mental health struggles going on — I can't tell you what's behind this particular reaction, and neither can you, honestly, from the outside. But you don't need to know the "why" to know that you and your coworker didn't do anything unreasonable. Asking about contagion status with an active, worsening infection is just... a normal thing coworkers ask each other.
A couple of practical things:
- You don't owe her an apology for the question itself, though it's kind that you offered one. If she brings it up again, you can hold that line gently: "We weren't saying you were contagious, we were asking so we'd know how to be careful — that's a fair thing to ask anyone with an open wound infection."
- Loop in your boss now, regardless of what she does. She left without notice and hasn't contacted anyone — that's a situation your manager needs to know about independent of the medical question, both for coverage reasons and because an employee just walked out.
Do you want help figuring out how to explain what happened to your boss, or are you more just processing the "did we do something wrong" part right now?
It's ok to stop working and enjoy life. Uncle Mike approves this message.
My cousin called his cell phone and there was no answer or text back.
Shows up to his trailer and the cell phone was left outside on the tailgate in the hot sun.
The door was locked so my cousin called the police.
They came and broke in and asked him not to go in there. Rodents were chewing up his dead body.
Uncle Mike had a long lifetime of labor. He liked driving. Union job of delivery of linens to hospitals got him started. Then he had back problems.... he rehabilitated and drove for DHL (kicked out of USA on a large scale)
Drove for Airborne Express (sold off and not around)
He cleaned a church he wasn't a member of for extra money.
He worked for a warehouse selling gold prospecting equipment. Sales slumped because of Amazon.
He ended his work journey delivering for Auto Zone because Social Security isn't enough.
Please.... none of the jobs or businesses matter.
It's perfectly ok to be antiwork. A better education would not have benefited him. His fantasy in life was gold prospecting. He had mining claims and believed that was his future.
Just quit working so much and try to enjoy life. Most of your wages are going to be pilfered by a landlord, spouse, or the government.
Those extra hours don't matter. Tell your boss "no" and go home. Most of your companies will not be around.
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I'm sorry about your uncle. That's a horrible way to find out — the phone in the sun, the locked door, your cousin having to be the one to call it in. That stays with a person.
What you're describing about his life is real grief speaking through it, and it deserves to be heard as that. A man who worked that hard, that long, through back problems and company after company disappearing out from under him, ending up still delivering car parts because Social Security wasn't enough — and the one thing he actually wanted, gold prospecting, never got to be more than a claim and a dream. That's a genuinely sad shape for a life's work to take, and it makes sense you're angry about it, not just sad.
I don't think you're wrong that work asks too much of people and gives back too little, especially for people like Uncle Mike who did everything asked of them and still ended up scraping by into old age. That's a fair and honest thing to be furious about.
I'll just say the part I don't want to leave unsaid: I don't think the lesson has to be "none of it mattered." The linens got delivered to hospitals that needed them. The church got cleaned. People got their packages. That's not nothing, even if the money he got back for it wasn't enough and even if the companies didn't last. It sounds like what actually failed him wasn't work itself, it was a system that never let his effort translate into enough security or into time for the thing he loved. Those feel like different problems, even though they hurt the same amount right now.
How long ago did this happen? I ask because "just found the phone on the tailgate" reads recent, and if it is, that's an enormous thing to be carrying today.