It took 10 years of rejection, screaming clients, and getting ghosted to learn:
1. Hard Work + Invisibility = Career Death
Be brilliant all you want. If no one knows, it doesn't matter.
2. Thick Skin Isn't Optional
Rejection stings. Get over it. It's proof you're playing.
3. Their Rudeness ≠ Your Worth
When people are nasty, that's their damage showing.
4. Fire Soul-Sucking Clients
Had one who gave me heart palpitations. Haven't worked with her in 5 years. Best decision ever.
5. Money < Mental Health
No paycheck is worth becoming someone you hate.
6. Double Down on Champions
Some clients will fight for you. Keep them forever.
7. Success = Loneliness
Your wins mean nothing without people to share them with.
8. You're Only As Good As Your Network
It's not just net worth. It's your safety net.
9. Three Strikes, You're Out
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.
Fool me thrice? That's self-sabotage.
10. Never Stop Learning
I'm 42 and just signed up for an AI course. Complacency kills careers.
Which truth hits hardest?
What do you wish you knew when younger?