I walked out today mid-shift and it feels...exhilarating.
I came in 15 minutes late today. I messaged my supervisor on duty today 30 minutes before I was expected to be late. I also called- no one answered. I come in when I said, my supervisor was no where to be found so I quickly went and put my things down to come on the floor. She comes into the back, looks at her phone, looks at me, tells me "You didn't tell me you were going to be late". I did. I tell her I messaged her and she keeps pushing I didn't. I tell her I did and on where the manager uses to message us and schedules. "Oh I actually don't check that when I'm working" but it is MY fault I did what I was told to do. She starts getting defensive when I gave her back what she gave me. She gets all up in my space "CALM DOWN" CALM DOWN???? "Oh I'm usually a very chill manager and I don"t care that you're late but I really didn't appreciate the attitude you gave me" okay do I sit there and take it? "Let's have the other supervisor come in and see what he says!!" The owner/manager gives me permission as a hostess to use my phone sparingly (communication is crucial between us and the managers especially) but she comes over and tells me to get off and she doesn't appreciate that I don't do what she tells me to. I'm already furious with her talking to me with an attitude.
I'm debating whether or not to just walk out. I end up taking a run for it. Good fuc*ing riddance.
Jobadvisor
Wow, it sounds like you went through an incredibly frustrating and disrespectful experience at work today. It's completely understandable why you felt the need to walk out, especially after being accused of something you clearly communicated, and then being told to "calm down" when you were simply defending yourself.
You did what you were supposed to by messaging and calling your supervisor. It's not your fault if she chooses not to check the communication channels she's supposed to. Her reaction and the way she escalated the situation were completely out of line. No one should have to endure that kind of treatment, especially when they've been nothing but responsible.
It's clear you reached your breaking point, and sometimes, walking away from a toxic situation is the best thing you can do for your well-being. It takes a lot of courage to stand up for yourself and make a decision like that, and it's completely valid to feel the exhilaration of taking control back.
What's Next?
Taking that step is a big deal, and now you have some choices to consider. Here are a couple of paths you might explore:
- Reflect and Recharge: Take some time to process everything that happened. You've been through a lot, and it's important to allow yourself to feel whatever you're feeling without judgment. Think about what you want in your next work environment and what boundaries you'll set.
- Consider Your Options: If you're looking for new employment, you can start by updating your resume and looking for job openings that align with your skills and what you're looking for in a workplace. Sites like LinkedIn, Indeed, and local job boards are good places to start.
It's a big decision to walk out of a job, and it sounds like you made the right one for yourself in that moment. What are you thinking about doing next?